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"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." Matt. 6: 14-15

Many Christians hold on to grudges, not understanding the danger that they are putting themselves in. The scriptures are very clear, if you cannot forgive someone for sinning against you; God cannot forgive you your sins. Sin destroys and brings death. It has been proven by secular doctors that when you hold a grudge and cannot forgive someone, the higher the chances are of you developing heart disease, arthritis and other forms of sickness.

My father was an alcoholic and would frequently beat my mother. I would hide under my bed trying to escape her cries and my anger towards my father would grow. When I reached 18 and my parent’s marriage ended, I wanted nothing to do with him. I wished he were dead. I remember if I’d see him coming down the street, I’d cross to the other side in order to avoid him. I was very unforgiving towards my father and it ate away at my body and spirit. I suffered from anxiety attacks and depression. I would try to get away from the anger by turning to sex and parties. At 24 my body was worn out and I developed severe Rheumatoid Arthritis. I was told that by the time I reached 30 years old I’d be in a wheelchair. It was during this time I turned back to God.

I had accepted Jesus into my heart at 8 years old and remembered the joy I had at that time, but I had fallen away as I grew older. I asked Jesus to restore me, wash me, cleanse me and heal me. My hands and jaw that had been disfigured by the disease were restored and my faith in Jesus was renewed. I realized through reading God’s word where my illness came from and that I had to forgive my father. I sought him out and told him that I loved him and forgave him and asked for his forgiveness as well. We both wept and he asked Jesus into his heart a few months later.

Where is your heart today? Do you have trouble forgiving someone who hurt you? We are to walk in forgiveness. How many times are you to forgive? Jesus said seventy times seven a day. (Matt 18:21-22) If Christ, when He was on the cross and all our sins were laid upon Him could say, "Father, forgive them for they do not know what they are doing." We have no excuse. We must forgive as He forgave otherwise we put ourselves in danger. Check your heart and forgive those who have sinned against you. I promise you it will bring healing to your life.


Comments on: "Forgiveness" (6)

  1. Desirée said:

    That is so true, when we dont forgive someone, it hurts us, not the person we dont forgive. I was just looking thru spaces, and i havent found alot of Christian ones, and when i came across this it encourged me.I remember the day i accept Christ into my heart, it was 3 years ago, i was.. 12, my whole life changed, when i first became a Chirstian i had this big grudge agaisnt my parents for not ever bringing me to church. .and i had never forgiven my dad for beating me, and once i did that, i became free, Forgiveness is very important in a Christian life. Remember "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." Matt. 6: 14-15

  2. Hi Gerry,Thanks for leaving a coment on my blog too. I think you are doing a good thing here.I have a question:What is the function of Angels?Hope you can bring me some insignt, I think I know what they are but I wanted more perceprions of the same thing..Thanks (Peace)Darren

  3. PLease email me , i would like to talk to you in the private about the forgiveness and hurts… thanks Lisa

  4. Pettho-A said:

    Hello Gerry!I need your prayer about the latest entry in my blog.Thanx

  5. Unknown said:

    hi! im not sure if im in the right site for my religion but i hope i am cuz id look like a fool if i wasnt. im christian. i just want to know how i can be more christian without changeing my way of life. please get back to me. no rush.~Kayla~

  6. DarkArchon said:

    Hey, thanks for the comment Gerry on my site. I understand why you would get rid of some comments, though personally I wouldnt on mine. But I totally understand. Anyway, my name is Josh, the Dark Archon thing fits with the black metal I play. I was going to be a worship leader myself, but then God showed me that I could be one (part time) and also be a highschool math teacher, which is what I\’m working towards (not only showed me, but told me that\’s what He wants). Anyway, as a comment to Kayla, you\’re either a christian or not, there is no "more christian" though there is becoming more and more like Christ. And to become more and more like Christ, we really need to change a LOT. And that\’s for me just as much as anyone!!!

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